My writing here in the Archives
is based on my philosophies in my
3 self-help books. These philosophies
are further expanded on in my
proprietary curriculum at
Rosewood Institute.

The Birkin Principle is a philosophy of feminine
sovereignty — a restoration of balance between
grace and structure, softness and strength.
A woman’s inner feminine energy is like
the supple leather of the Birkin —
sensual, emotive, alive with beauty and allure.
The woman’s inner masculine energy i
s like the architecture: the stitching, the structure,
the lock and key that preserve its form. One without t
he other collapses — beauty without protection frays,
structure without softness loses soul.

I am sharing what the old money upper class woman
knows, but other women may have yet to learn…
This book guides women to heal the fractures
between their inner feminine and masculine
— the wounds of overgiving, self-abandonment,
and survival. It teaches her to cultivate boundaries
with the same artistry she brings to her beauty,
and to build a life as enduring and composed
as the craftsmanship she admires.

True elegance is not born from perfection, but
from polish. In Breathwork at Tiffany’s, the woman
becomes her own artisan — cutting, refining,
and setting her inner self with the same precision
and grace as a Tiffany diamond. This is a book about
composure as art, restraint as power, and emotional clarity
as the rarest form of luxury.

Drawing upon the quiet codes of old-world femininity
and the psychology of inner discipline, Breathwork at Tiffany’s
is a guide for the woman seeking to heal and
rebalance her inner feminine— neither overdeveloped
into performance, nor underdeveloped into coldness.
Through exquisite emotional craftsmanship, it
teaches how to harmonize grace with groundedness,
intuition with discernment, and softness with strength.

This elegant guide reveals how true self-love, self-respect,
and energetic alignment shape the relationships you attract.
I uncover the subtle ways unresolved self-worth issues
invite toxic patterns and transactional dynamics, and
show you how to break free—replacing them
with connections rooted in authenticity,
intention, and mutual respect.

With clarity and sophistication, The Courtship Code
equips women to navigate modern dating from a
place of empowered presence, refined standards, and
inner balance. By embracing both your feminine
receptivity and masculine assertiveness, you learn to
magnetize partners who are mindful, committed,
and attuned to your highest frequency
and aligned with abundance.

Discover Rosewood Institute

Based on the core philosophies in my
3 self-help books above…

Rosewood Institute is a modern day finishing school
for women, specializing in a proprietary curriculum
centered on balancing inner feminine and
inner masculine energies to align with a more
abundant, divinely guided, and fulfilling life.

Instilling in students the timeless
codes of old world refinement at an
energetic and psychological level.

Mischaela
Elkins de Valerga

Pulitzer Prize nominated Author
Founder, CEO of ROSEGOLD INC.
Rosewood Institute
The Rose Quartz Awards

About Mischaela

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A modern day Finishing School
teaching inner masculine and inner feminine energy balance to elevate your relationships, wealth, and abundance.

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Pulitzer Prize nominated AuthorFounder, CEO of ROSEGOLD INC.Rosewood InstituteThe Rose Quartz Awards

About Mischaela

Rosewood Institute

A modern day Finishing Schoolteaching inner masculine and inner feminine energy balance to elevate your relationships, wealth, and abundance.

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Mischaela
Elkins de Valerga

Pulitzer Prize nominated Author
Founder, CEO of ROSEGOLD INC.
Rosewood Institute
The Rose Quartz Awards

A modern day Finishing School
teaching inner masculine and inner feminine energy balance to elevate your relationships, wealth, and abundance.